"She hit the nail on the head. Kitty never liked pain. As a typical girly girl, she was sensitive and loved tenderness and affection. Pain was not something on her wish list. An occasional slap on the butt was fun, she had no problem with it, but besides that, she needed comfort and pleasure. If I put her in bondage and it caused some pain, she would ask me to redo it differently. A pressure point at the wrong place would spoil the fun of her predicament. But yet, her obsession with losing control made her cross that frontier. Knowing that she could receive pain and that she couldn’t do anything about it was such a turn on for her."
ARE YOU SPYING ON ME?
No, seriously, i'm ALL about loss of physical control, and that aspect lets me explore pain play that i otherwise wouldn't.