Poll

How hard do you like to play with spanking? A playful spanking is best when it leaves the person with...

Light pink skin.
3 (42.9%)
Red skin.
3 (42.9%)
Raised welts.
1 (14.3%)
Bruising.
0 (0%)
Slight lacerations.
0 (0%)

Total Members Voted: 3

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ElectroPainLover

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Spanking is best when
« on: December 19, 2016, 07:36:10 PM »
When spanking someone, or being spanked by someone, in a spanking type scenario do you prefer it to be soft or hard or somewhere in between? The poll is focused on spanking and not a punishment scenario. You may pick up to three answers.
« Last Edit: December 20, 2016, 12:43:57 AM by ElectroPainLover »

Offline Lobo De la Sombra

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Re: Spanking is best when
« Reply #1 on: December 20, 2016, 12:07:26 AM »
I think, before you can say what a good result from a spanking should be, you need to ask why the spanking was administered.  Was it a playful spanking, or was it for punishment?  Or was it maybe a punishment that led to a reward for taking said punishment well?  A playful spanking should be expressed as such, and would hopefully lead to a happy acceptance and further fun activities.  A punishment spanking should lead to a desire on the part of the spanked to never draw such a punishment again  Not that it should be harsh or unduly painful.  A punishment spanking, even a light one, should focus more on the mental and emotional aspects of the punishment, the disappointment that led to said punishment.  As in all other things, a punishment spanking should never be delivered out of anger.  A punishment leading to a reward should have the same effect as a punishment spanking, while at the same time making it clear that being punished does not in any way make the spanker think or feel less of the spankee.
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ElectroPainLover

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Re: Spanking is best when
« Reply #2 on: December 20, 2016, 12:52:44 AM »
You're right Lobo...the way I originally posed the question and poll was vague as to the reason for the spanking. I guess because I associate 'spanking' to be more of a play-type scenario and flogging, whipping, caning, or stropping to be more on the disciplinary side I (like usual and we all know what it leads to) assumed everyone else did too. My original idea had to do with a play-spank situation.

As for me...I like some pretty hard spanking. Enough to know that I have been spanked. Nicely red and welts and some occasional bruising can be quite exciting. I just wish I had someone to help me do it today. It is pretty difficult to give yourself a downright proper spank.

Dana

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Re: Spanking is best when
« Reply #3 on: December 20, 2016, 06:53:39 AM »
I like to deliver playfully but for it to be felt and so it can be seen where I've been :D

Mostly I like the element of surprise so punishment is never a reason I delver a blow. I like to use 'found objects' and see what reaction they get.

ElectroPainLover

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Re: Spanking is best when
« Reply #4 on: December 22, 2016, 04:43:49 PM »
Oh gosh...I feel for your man when there's a hairbrush in sight. OUCH!!!

 

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