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Spanking & Discipline => Spanking Discussion => Topic started by: ElectroPainLover on December 19, 2016, 07:36:10 pm

Title: Spanking is best when
Post by: ElectroPainLover on December 19, 2016, 07:36:10 pm
When spanking someone, or being spanked by someone, in a spanking type scenario do you prefer it to be soft or hard or somewhere in between? The poll is focused on spanking and not a punishment scenario. You may pick up to three answers.
Title: Re: Spanking is best when
Post by: Lobo De la Sombra on December 20, 2016, 12:07:26 am
I think, before you can say what a good result from a spanking should be, you need to ask why the spanking was administered.  Was it a playful spanking, or was it for punishment?  Or was it maybe a punishment that led to a reward for taking said punishment well?  A playful spanking should be expressed as such, and would hopefully lead to a happy acceptance and further fun activities.  A punishment spanking should lead to a desire on the part of the spanked to never draw such a punishment again  Not that it should be harsh or unduly painful.  A punishment spanking, even a light one, should focus more on the mental and emotional aspects of the punishment, the disappointment that led to said punishment.  As in all other things, a punishment spanking should never be delivered out of anger.  A punishment leading to a reward should have the same effect as a punishment spanking, while at the same time making it clear that being punished does not in any way make the spanker think or feel less of the spankee.
Title: Re: Spanking is best when
Post by: ElectroPainLover on December 20, 2016, 12:52:44 am
You're right Lobo...the way I originally posed the question and poll was vague as to the reason for the spanking. I guess because I associate 'spanking' to be more of a play-type scenario and flogging, whipping, caning, or stropping to be more on the disciplinary side I (like usual and we all know what it leads to) assumed everyone else did too. My original idea had to do with a play-spank situation.

As for me...I like some pretty hard spanking. Enough to know that I have been spanked. Nicely red and welts and some occasional bruising can be quite exciting. I just wish I had someone to help me do it today. It is pretty difficult to give yourself a downright proper spank.

Dana
Title: Re: Spanking is best when
Post by: MsBehavin on December 20, 2016, 06:53:39 am
I like to deliver playfully but for it to be felt and so it can be seen where I've been :D

Mostly I like the element of surprise so punishment is never a reason I delver a blow. I like to use 'found objects' and see what reaction they get.
Title: Re: Spanking is best when
Post by: ElectroPainLover on December 22, 2016, 04:43:49 pm
Oh gosh...I feel for your man when there's a hairbrush in sight. OUCH!!!