Hi Desolate Mistral,
Finding your wife was easy. You live in the Boston area, Mass, USA. Its a small city. I have my spies !
Your wife is also a reader of the Plaza, but I only know her by the name of her alter-ego. She loves trash, being tied in polythene, and she just hopes that her hubby won't be ashamed of her, when he finds out. She has no idea you are THE Desolate Mistral.
If only it was that simple........
But take heart, stranger things have happened !
Remember she only agreed to go out with you because she loves and likes you. Being married includes trust. She may admire your honesty. She may be the trash girl of your dreams. She may kick you out the house and change the locks. Who knows ? Being in love does involve taking some risks. She could have declined to go out with you. You would never have known, until you got the courage to ask her out. So you took risks once upon a time. So she cannot be THAT scary, otherwise you would not have asked. All good relationships are based on love, mutual respect, care, trust and communication. If you do decide to approach her with your kinks, tread softly, and above all - don't blame me if it goes wrong ! LOL.
I hope it works out for you both.
Daffy