New Relationship?

[ElectroPainLover]

You've been looking to get into a relationship. You like fetishes/bdsm and have always wanted a partner who liked it too. But, a person catches your eye that has expressed no desire in a kinky relationship. What would you do? If you have another idea than what I have offered, please choose other and explain what it is in a post.

[ElectroPainLover]

I have been in several 'vanilla' relationships and they left me always wanting something more. Not so much as to make me 'move on' or engage in an extramarital affair but I always wished for more.

Dana

[ario120987]

As someone who took the "no kink" at the start here is my experience.  I got into this relationship,  initially just as progression of a close friendship. Bondage and even sex were the farthest things from my mind. I have been lucky enough to find an open minded partner. If I were to do it again though, it would probably wouldn't be a deal breaker. Bondage for me, is a physical interest. At the end of the day, I want to be with someone I enjoy on more than a physical level. If we don't share a kink, that is a small thing to me, like having different tastes in music.

[bowser]

I would be out in the open with your kinks and/or quirks soon after you start talking with someone that you seem to have feelings for.  If she/he doesn't like or even want to entertain the notions of any of your kinks then move on and find another person more open.  I had to suppress mine in my first marriage because she didn't want to do anything bdsm related.  Part of the reason our marriage ended in a divorce.   Now I am open with it in hopes that I can find a partner/friend/lover who likes it just as much as I do.