Hand Tying Bondage Help

[Mikeroper1968]

Hello,
I been having difficulties with my sessions with my wife. She ties me to the chair and ties my hands to the sides of the chair with rope. I always manage to wiggle out of them after about 10-20 minutes when I really want to be stuck and at her mercy. This escape has interfered with the level of play and adds to both our frustrations. We thought about leather cuffs and handcuffs, but they take the fun out of being rope tied. Does anyone have any column ties techniques which are effective?

[Eido]

Hi Mike,
If you mean a double column tie, I've had good success with techniques that involve a cinch between the two columns, such as shown here:

https://www.theduchy.com/larks-head-double-column/

Though I use more loops around the wrists, or other columns, than shown in these photos. Maybe it's the rope you are using and not the knot? I've found some materials, like nylon, are way slicker and easier to escape/untie than other materials. This same website has some single column examples if that's what you are looking for.

If you are a subscriber to the Kink Academy, I really like Erin Houdini's 'Western Fusion' single and double column ties.

Hope this helps,
Eido

[Mikeroper1968]

Thank you, I read the Duchy.com techniques and have yet to try them. We were using cotton rope, we had not much success with the nylon rope I had over the years, I slipped out easily. We talked and are going to try the Lark loop this Wed/Thursday.

Thanks!

[Jessica]

Hi Mike, how nice that you enjoy these things with your wife. I like bondage and for that I prefer ropes over the other options. I think you may need to tie more than one point at a time, not only your hands, but also the rest of your arms and torso. If you're tied to a chair like that it's going to be a lot harder for you to break free and escape.

Here you can find many examples to follow although you can make it a bit simpler as well.