If one is against abortion, don't get one! No one is controlling you to do anything in that case.
It's not that simple, though the protesters would like it to be framed that way. To start, there is the matter of when life begins. I don't know when that is, but those with religious beliefs do have a definite answer. That's why there's a large and vocal pro-life movement. Like it or not a significant portion of the US regards abortion as taking a life. It is not, in their view, a victimless crime. I expect Bible Belt states will move rapidly to follow Mississippi in banning abortion for just that reason.
Then there's the controversy over when a fetus becomes a viable child, which is why so many states now limit abortions in third trimester. Again, I have no answer to this question, but I do believe it should be determined on a local basis, state by state.
your description of the overturning of Roe v Wade, in my listening, sounds like some sort of clerical error has been addressed after 50 years. It totally distracts from the fact that a huge chunk of Americans just had a right stripped away from them.
It wasn't a clerical error, it was a deliberate decision based on ideology without legal backing, which is far worse since it undermines the credibility of a critical branch of the federal government. Rule by emotion over rule by law might be satisfying in the short run but it is corruption by another name. Sadly there have been far too many court decisions that create new law out of whole cloth rather than apply the only rules the court must follow, the Constitution. It's that kind of carelessness that led to the mess now.
And no, abortion never was a Constitutional right. There is no clause or Amendment that deals with it, even in the abstract, other than the 10th Amendment, which is quite clear that whatever is left out of the federal Constitution is up to individual states to legislate and adjudicate. Legal scholars were aware of that fatal flaw in Roe vs. Wade for the last 49 years. That's why there was so much effort put into blocking strict interpreters of the Constitution from becoming Justices.
AS for the Equal Protection clause, that affects how laws are applied. For instance, government cannot pass laws that single out certain groups, say 18-20 year old adults, and penalize them for supposed crimes which are legal if they were 21 or older. I know, what about drinking? Well, drinking alcohol has not been a right since Prohibition was repealed. States which generally grant adult status starting at 21 can limit drinking below that age. Abortion is now a matter of state law, not federal, so Equal Protection would apply only if the state law was arbitrarily applied such that that urban residents could have abortions but not rural women, as an example.
In any case, Equal Protection is routinely ignored by Congress when passing laws. Sure, they are eventually overturned in courts but that takes years, long after the emotional high wins the votes for the next election. Mask mandates are a good example, as well as the current gun bill which flies in the face of that other momentous decision on gun regulations the court handed down the day before.
Putting aside the controversy, anyone who reads my stories knows I am perhaps the worst possible choice to advocate for any kind of legal equality between the sexes. Not service animals, but property, ahh yes, that is (literally) another story (or two, in the queue now). However, I am quite sure my solution to these kinds of issues will never be considered in any public forum. Well, except maybe this one...
(See? in a roundabout way I brought the discussion back to one of the website themes.)