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Title: hi all
Post by: t-girl2015 on February 05, 2016, 08:09:59 pm
Hi all anyone in the uk been trashed and left for the garbage truck? I have always wanted to be bagged and put in the bin for collection i am wondering if anyone has had this happen, or had close calls,
Title: Re: hi all
Post by: Trash girl on February 05, 2016, 11:30:04 pm
hello miss T-girl2015 i have had a close encounter one time i was playing in a dumpster i got found in ther and was humiliated for a long time in the small town i live in i was bagged up and got hevie trash thrown on me
Title: Re: hi all
Post by: t-girl2015 on February 06, 2016, 02:32:50 am
How did u get caught?
Title: Re: hi all
Post by: Daffy Duck on February 06, 2016, 09:08:50 am
Hi T-girl 2015,

I am in the UK (London).

There is a big difference between enjoying the fantasy and living this for real.

The old forum had several such discussions about this.

One reader got buried alive. Another reader got publically humiliated with locals, friends and family. There are unpleasant consequences and the risks are real !

I enjoy being bagged too. But I have had some close calls with lack of oxygen - headaches, feeling sleepy.

One reader was 'put out for collection' by a 'helpful neighbour' and nearly got stuck, and had to escape and get back inside the house with few clothes on.

Each year, you read news stories of people killed inside garbage trucks. Many are homeless, but some might be Plaza readers !

It is one thing to fantasize about having a close call. Yippee !    It is another thing entirely to actually have a close call. Oh $hit !!!

I recommend playing inside a wheelie bin inside your home. There is the danger someone will see you with it, as you secretly try to move it in and out, without being noticed. But once inside your home, you can fantasize all you like. Climbing inside the wheelie bin naked, still feels very naughty. You can add trash bags, and it allows you to feel as part of the trash. It feels very real, but there is minimum risk. 99% of the thrill and pleasure and only 1% of the risk.  Using your own trash, means you can avoid hazards like broken glass. Remember a wheelie bin liner acts as a seal, so keep the lid ajar to let the air in.

Doing this outside is NOT advised. Getting caught naked in a public place is a crime. And do you really want to explain yourself to a neighbour or a police officer ? Bins get moved, and whilst being put out for collection is my ultimate fantasy, the reality would be not at all sexy. Accidents do happen. People get stuck. Some have been dumped inside garbage trucks, with death or amputated limbs or broken bones the norm. There is nothing sexy about that.

ALWAYS play safe, so you can live to play another day. And DON'T assume risks only apply to other people. The risks are real and they apply to everyone.

The warnings that Gromet posts on trashcan stories are there for a very valid reason. Please take note.

I would hate anything bad to happen to any trashcan enthusiast using this site.

It is an enjoyable fantasy, not reality.

Daffy
Title: Re: hi all
Post by: Trash girl on February 06, 2016, 03:46:57 pm
miss t-girl2015 i got found when i got to comfterbal in the dumpster making moaning noises then one thing lead to the other and i was found
Title: Re: hi all
Post by: t-girl2015 on February 06, 2016, 05:04:08 pm
Who did you get found by and how did you explain it?
Title: Re: hi all
Post by: Daffy Duck on February 06, 2016, 06:06:29 pm
Can you EVER explain it ?

"I climbed inside the dumpster, hoping to be buried alive under your trash.....  To conceal my naked body, I climbed into a large garbage bag, so I would blend in with the other bags......  As I laid here, I was pleasuring myself......... When you disturbed me !"

In a small community, where everyone knows everyone, it will soon get back to your family about your kinky ways. That is assuming, they don't call the Police and have you arrested for trespassing and being naked in a trash bag.

Still it could be worse ........ 

1) You get stuck and cannot escape.   
2) You suffocate under all the polythene bags. 
3) They dump hazardous waste inside the dumpster and you get injured and need hospital attention. 
4) They change the garbage collection times and you get taken away with the trash.
5) The person who catches you sexually aroused in the trash, decides to climb in with you !

Daffy
Title: Re: hi all
Post by: t-girl2015 on February 06, 2016, 06:15:26 pm
Thankyou for the advice daffy but wether it be me or anyone else does this they are fully aware of what could happen so if i or they still decide to go through with it then it is entirely at own risk of the person doing it :) i can see what ur saying about the risks and making people aware of them
Title: Re: hi all
Post by: Daffy Duck on February 06, 2016, 06:39:59 pm
Hi T-girl2015,

Of course I cannot prevent you, or anyone else, from taking the risks. I am not a guardian angel and I won't be there to save you if you get in trouble.

But the jury is still out on whether all readers do actually understand the risks; or whether they merely think they do. Personally, from the evidence, I am far from convinced.

I simply read too many accounts of people, who you would think they ought to know better, getting hurt when they mistakenly thought they had all bases covered.

It is simply a myth to think you can be safe in the public arena. Yes, you could be lucky. But how many times do you want to chance your luck with the real possibility of fatal or serious injuries ?

The facts are simple. Unless you control 100% of the risks, there is always the unforeseen and uncontrollable actions of others to take you by nasty surprise. That is why they call such events 'accidents'.

I understand the desire that danger has its appeals.

But the point I am trying to make is:-  if you can experience all the fun, without the risks; why the need to take the risks ?

As the Trashcan Moderator, I also try to discourage this, not because I am a spoil-sport or killjoy; but because it is not the role of this forum to encourage others to place themselves in danger. Remember, Gromet has to fulfil his licence conditions.

I hope you understand.

And I hope you don't learn this lesson when it is too late.

Daffy
Title: Re: hi all
Post by: Trash girl on February 06, 2016, 06:45:39 pm
well said mister trash can moderator i have learned the lesson the hard way and i still like trash but i do play it safe in my home
Title: Re: hi all
Post by: Daffy Duck on February 06, 2016, 07:00:11 pm
Thanks for your support, Trash Girl.

Sadly, you are not alone in learning this lesson the hard way. You are one of many trashcan readers, each with your own tales of woe.

I even know of one very experienced reader, who still managed to get injured inside a waste compactor.

Safety is but an illusion to trick the unwary and the complacent.

What we are dealing with is those who THINK they know. They are the complacent. Accidents only happen to the dumb. No. Accidents happen to us all !

But there are none so blind as those who refuse to see, and none so deaf as those who refuse to listen.

Daffy



Title: Re: hi all
Post by: t-girl2015 on February 08, 2016, 10:24:53 pm
I completely understand what you are saying daffy and its good that you are looking out for the safety of others, but i think if someone does it they are aware of the risks and dangers so if something does happen to them then it is their own fault as they know what they are getting into :)
Title: Re: hi all
Post by: shokolada on February 09, 2016, 12:11:44 am
The one time I was put out at the curb it was in my own bin, in front of my own house, and we knew for sure collection day wasn't for another four days.

My playmate left me there for a while... maybe an hour or two, hard to keep track of time... then brought me in when she figured I'd stewed enough for the scene.

Playing in public, in equipment that isn't your own... so many many things can go wrong. I'd rather fake the scenes as best as possible on my own terms. We have a large storage box which is due to become our own private dumpster soon...
Title: Re: hi all
Post by: sealed4good on February 09, 2016, 01:20:21 am
I shall give account of my one and only time in trash.  It wasn't a curb-side bin, it was a large industrial dumpster at the back of a big supermarket.    I used to walk past it every evening on my way home from work and noted how it filled over the week. Monday it was always empty.   The trash in there was almost mostly flat-packed cardboard boxes (I assume from deliveries of groceries now stacked on shelves).  It was a reasonable size mall and fairly busy all the time, and the skip / dumpster was just at the end of the car-park, so a lot of people going past all the time.

One Friday evening after the pub on my way home I decided I'd climb in and sleep in it to see how it felt being trash. It was pretty full already, so I had to kind of 'climb' down through the card and clamber underneath.  I got to about 3/4 way down and rested there. I was quite in the middle of it all - it would have taken a bit of effort to get out let's just say.    I laid there and wrestled my arms down behind my back into my jeans and past my belt with some struggle just to really give the feeling that I had been helplessly thrown away. With the weight on me and lack of movement possible at this point it would be a struggle to get out in time if it were collected. But this was Friday evening, not Monday morning.

However, I hadn't actually known which day of the weekend it was collected, just that it was empty Monday morning when I walked past it to work. So I had another unknown, and I dozed off in a semi-drunk, semi aroused state.

Saturday morning I awoke to the sound of shoppers, cars, people all milling around, so I stayed silent and didn't move for fear of being found.  Then the shop workers started piling in more card and black bags as the morning went on. It was getting harder and harder to move, and after a while I honestly thought I was stuck.

Then later in the afternoon I heard very distinct sound of air-brakes hissing from a large truck. In my mind there was only one truck likely to be in this part of the car-park, and I started to desperately get myself free.  It was a huge struggle and all the while I could hear the truck collecting the dumpster next to me, then stop and reverse...  I frantically tried to climb back out through the flat layers of card but it had been filled so much it was like trying to climb through a solid wall. I heard the revving of the engine on the truck - totally sounded like the compactor running.  I made the most effort in my life I think I've ever made to get out before being picked up and thrown in the truck...

...obviously I made it or I wouldn't be here to tell the tale, and I would love that buzz again of course!  Play careful though, I could quite easily have been totally trapped. I'd planned on using cuffs behind my back too! Thankfully I didn't or I wouldn't be here to tell the tale, I'd probably be processed and recycled with the cardboard!  ;)

Stay safe folks, but don't deny yourself.
Title: Re: hi all
Post by: Daffy Duck on February 09, 2016, 10:16:53 am
Hi T-girl2015,

Of course it is their fault. It is certainly not my fault !  LOL

But you can get such lifelike kicks from the safety of your home, whether inside a wheelie bin or a garbage bag or both.  So outside is simply pointless.

Daffy
Title: Re: hi all
Post by: Daffy Duck on February 09, 2016, 10:31:46 am
Hi Shokolada,

In your own bin is safer, as you control the waste, in theory. But I have witnessed others use bins that don't belong to them. Around here, dog owners often put smelly bagged poop-scoop in other people's bins as they walk their dog, rather than take it home and put it in their own bin. This is why I don't leave my bins near the curb, unless it is collection day. So even your own bin is not 100% yours to control if it is left outside. 

One reader told me how a neighbour packed several bags in her bin, whilst she was inside it, and then took it to the curb - to be helpful. She was nearly trapped inside, and had to escape nude.

And collection dates can change, not just around public holidays, but if the council lets a new contract - so beware !

I am glad you prefer to control such scenes even with fake ones, rather than put yourself at unnecessary risk. I think that is very sensible.

You must be very lightweight, or your accomplice very strong, to wheel you to the curb. I am not sure anyone could move the bin with me inside it. I also need to find an accomplice to help me !

Daffy



Title: Re: hi all
Post by: Daffy Duck on February 09, 2016, 10:40:11 am
Hi Sealed4dood,

Perhaps you should be called "buried4good" ?

Was it the garbage truck ?

If it was, I assume you got caught getting out ?   How did you explain that ?

I have been tempted by supermarket dumpsters. But you cannot control what waste they dump on top of you (broken glass / other hazards) and how much they dump, so you could become trapped and/or suffocated under plastic bags.

To get inside without knowing when collection was, and you fell asleep drunk, is really lowering the odds of your survival.

Unless you want to experience trash compaction for real, I recommend you don't do this again. Stupid boy !

Daffy
Title: Re: hi all
Post by: shokolada on February 09, 2016, 12:02:50 pm
When taking bins full of people to the curb, it helps to live on a quiet street where people generally ignore other people's bins. And definitely check your community calendar the be sure of the collection schedule!

Also, and this is very important: in a real play scene, you should never be left alone by your playmate. It is fine to role-play being left alone - mine would loudly pretend to walk back into the house and slam the door, when in real life she would have a seat in a lawn chair with a good book and a drink. But in any BDSM scene, being left alone trapped is a recipe for disaster. I could have a physical problem in the bin, or there could be a problem from another source - someone might even hit the bin accidentally with a vehicle. Someone must monitor you for safety!

Besides, it's fun to watch the can, knowing that someone's trapped and helpless in there, and having the time of their life. I found it so when I stuffed my playmate in there!

And you don't have to be that strong. The bins I use are easily tipped back and wheeled around. In my "Can It" video, you can see one maid easily moving my bin around with another maid trapped inside. http://youtu.be/GS8JJKRL-EI

It's all about the fun!

Shok
Title: Re: hi all
Post by: Daffy Duck on February 09, 2016, 12:26:12 pm
Hi Shok,

Thanks for the very important safety advice. Yet again fantasy and real life are NOT the same.

Thanks also for the weblink. It is a great video, which I have seen before, when you kindly posted it. Oh to find two girls that would put me in the wheelie bin and dump trash bags on top of me !  (I am not into the custard pies..... except for eating.   I prefer the sensual touch of polythene against my skin.)

Daffy

P.S. "Bins full of people"  - how many people can you get inside your bin !  LOL
Title: Re: hi all
Post by: shokolada on February 09, 2016, 02:05:49 pm
Hope I'm not blowing up the feed here, but this is a topic I feel I can discuss since I went to the trouble of buying a wheelie bin especially for private play :)

As far as "bins full of people" is concerned, that's just my private fantasy of a line full of bins at the curb or tucked in the basement; each with its own unlucky (lucky) inhabitant, occasionally wondering when or if they'll be let out, blaming each other for their predicament, rustling around in the plastic, and occasionally letting out a muffled orgasm. Heh.

I once had the lady from "Indiscretion" (another of my pie videos) and her partner clean out their fridge over me while I was in the bin. I can't say I enjoyed the old food... those are not smells and textures I enjoy. But being in the can and listening to them joke with each other and gently tease me while they did it... well, that put me into subspace quickly, and I was still floating for over an hour after the scene ended!
Title: Re: hi all
Post by: Daffy Duck on February 09, 2016, 04:11:05 pm
Hi Shok,

Thanks for sharing both vivid images.

You must be a catch with the ladies !  I struggle to find one playmate, you have several.

If you have any 'to spare', you can always send them to me.

Lucky chap. (I bet he does not share his secret........)

I am happy to discuss this further. You know the sort of things I like from my stories. But I suppose the reality is not as good as the fantasy.

Daffy
Title: Re: hi all
Post by: shokolada on February 09, 2016, 06:45:40 pm
Believe me, I've gone long stretches without anyone to play with. But I'm happy to share what secrets I have to find playmates:

Pay attention to yourself. Decent grooming, clothes that fit, a positive attitude, self-confidence, comfortable with who you are: these are all very attractive qualities. If you do something interesting that makes for good (quickly-told) stories, that's a bonus. If you don't, why not find something? More fun for you, more attention from others.

Go to lots of your local kink events. Attend often. Help out with setup and tear-down. Get to know folks, and make friends before you start looking for playmates. You don't want to appear on the prowl for "fresh meet", and making friends is also its own reward.

No kink events nearby? Consider your local fan conventions. The geek/kinkster overlap is huge, and you'll get to see some very yummy costumes. (DO NOT be a creep about this. Be respectful, and your reputation will continue to climb. Again, make friends and help out.)

Advanced class: start your own local kink group. Many people have pulled this off, but I'm not brave enough to try it. Staffing at a few fan cons is enough work and drama for me.

Speaking of which stay out of drama. Try to avoid taking sides, and stick to sympathetic non-commital answers when people seem to want you to join the drama "fun". This is not what you are here for.

If you put the time in, eventually you'll have opportunities for play. This is one of the trickiest bits! Whenever you are playing with someone new, be damn sure to show them at least as good or better a time than they gave you, by *their* standards. They will remember you as someone who was *awesome* to play with, and trust me, these things get around. Be kind and respectful even when engaging in the cruelest behavior (if that's the scene). If the "cleaning the fridge" scene I mentioned had been focused on real humiliation, I'd have been done immdiately, no matter how hot the ladies involved.

Pick up a good book or two on the sexual anatomy of the genders you are interested in. I don't mean to brag, but my ability to find a clit and then do interesting things with it literally won me an award at FetFest a couple of years ago. Again, you may become legend.

If you are chill enough, accept offers of play from many gender presentations. Once you get over certain societal biases, it turns out that playing with people who don't fit your initial sexual attractions can be hella fun and very instructive.

Those are my top tips. They don't guarantee you a mind-blowing scene every weekend... but I've sure had plenty over the years following these rules!

Yours,
Shok
Title: Re: hi all
Post by: Daffy Duck on February 09, 2016, 07:24:09 pm
Thanks Shok,

What a brilliant and very comprehensive list. Very helpful. Cheers.

You failed to mention "It helps to be a billionaire" so your advice is attainable to the common man. Heeee heeee heeee ! LOL

Daffy

Title: Re: hi all
Post by: shokolada on February 09, 2016, 07:42:34 pm
Hey, I do all this on ramen money :) What little cash I have goes to pretty PVC dresses (also a good way to get attention if you know how to own the look)!
Title: Re: hi all
Post by: Daffy Duck on February 11, 2016, 10:12:37 am
Well done, Shok.
Title: Re: hi all
Post by: desolate mistral on February 20, 2016, 07:24:56 pm
Hi all anyone in the uk been trashed and left for the garbage truck? I have always wanted to be bagged and put in the bin for collection i am wondering if anyone has had this happen, or had close calls,

Hello t-girl2015,

I am unfortunately not in the UK like a lot of the folks on here are, I'm across the pond in New England. I have been in many a garbage container, Always one which I have a very good understanding of collection times and dates. I do try to play safe as often as i can, but as Daffy say's, there are very real risks involved with this kind of play.

I have had a very close call, one time in my life, it was the result of poor planning, ignorance, and impatience. Had I heeded my own feelings of it not being right, I never would have gotten hurt.

I learned a big lesson from that one incident, and I swore off trashplay for a long time. I have been re-indulging for a few years not, Mostly innocuous play with trash bags in my own home, and some other "public" time, including some very intense play times.

If you would like to hear the bad, or good stories message me and i'll share them with you!

Please be safe in whatever you may decide to pleasure yourself with, It is dangerous and I do take all the precautions I can, but again, as Daffy says, it is like playing with fire, and sooner or later you are going to catch a burn of some sort.

Have fun on here, hopefully you can find some people to help you safely engage in your fantasies.
Title: Re: hi all
Post by: Daffy Duck on February 20, 2016, 09:05:38 pm
Hi Desolate Mistral,

First and foremostly, may I say I am sorry to hear that you "got hurt".  I always feel bad when I hear that.

Sadly your story is far from unique. I have heard of several such trashcan enthusiasts which have been hurt in the innocent pursuit of pleasure. Some were physically injured. Some where mentally scared when "caught in the act", so to speak. One high profile fan (a British member of parliament no less) died. I also read of people killed in garbage trucks. Most appear accidents, the unfortunate homeless sleeping rough in a dumpster for shelter, the drunk, but some have the hallmarks of fetish fans, like the story of a couple having sex in a dumpster when they got emptied and crushed. That does NOT sound accidental to me.....

Thanks for sharing your story and adding your weight to the safe message. Some of the stuff I read on this forum makes my hair stand on end. Naïve at best, proving that some readers still think it is safe. Sadly, their luck will run out one day. Luck always does.

Regards,

Daffy
Title: Re: hi all
Post by: sealed4good on February 21, 2016, 04:58:07 am
Hi Sealed4dood,

Perhaps you should be called "buried4good" ?

Was it the garbage truck ?

If it was, I assume you got caught getting out ?   How did you explain that ?

I have been tempted by supermarket dumpsters. But you cannot control what waste they dump on top of you (broken glass / other hazards) and how much they dump, so you could become trapped and/or suffocated under plastic bags.

To get inside without knowing when collection was, and you fell asleep drunk, is really lowering the odds of your survival.

Unless you want to experience trash compaction for real, I recommend you don't do this again. Stupid boy !

Daffy

Ha, no - thankfully it wasn't but man did I brick myself when I heard the hiss of the brakes...!!   At that point I really made a massive effort and struggled but got myself to the top and clambered out gingerly...   well I looked out first and then took my chance when I thought nobody was around.  I don't think anyone saw me, but there's probably some CCTV footage somewhere of a bloke clambering out of a full skip looking a bit panicked! haha!
Title: Re: hi all
Post by: Daffy Duck on February 21, 2016, 03:17:15 pm
Hi Sealed4good,

When you hear the sound of airbrakes, you have probably left it a tad too late !

At least you were not naked and sealed inside a black polythene bag, and then tried to make your escape. I know of one reader found in that predicament !  (No. It was not me.)

CCTV is everywhere. If you search long enough of Youtube you will no doubt find the video !!

I recommend playing at home in future.

Daffy
Title: Re: hi all
Post by: Jennifer52 on February 22, 2016, 01:00:53 pm
I'm in the UK and although my trash experience is very limited I'd love to find a safe place to indulge. Anyway, I had an idea the other day. I'm on fetlife and found a couple who have a holiday cottage business not too far from me on the east coast of England. A couple of times a year they reserve all the cabins for kinksters meaning we could all get together and take turns trashing each other! I'm pretty sure the owners world be fine with our exploits (very kink friendly) and might be willing to be a part of it as there's bound to be a fair bit of garbage generated from half a dozen self catering cottages. What do you think?
Title: Re: hi all
Post by: Daffy Duck on February 22, 2016, 02:29:39 pm
Hi Jennifer52,

Many thanks for kindly researching this, and for your suggestion that I am sure will tempt many of us.

Sorry for being a sourpuss, but nice things never happen to Daffy. So I have stopped believing in Santa decades ago. When something looks too good to be true, I wonder.

How well do you know and trust these people ?  Are they murderers that pose on the internet to trap people like us ?   "Yes", perfect stranger, "seal me in polythene and dump me in the trash".

You could always be the first brave volunteer, and if you survive and bring back tales of how great it was, then perhaps we will follow.

For your own safety, I recommend you do not go alone.

It may be entirely safe and decent. But then again, it might not.

Plus I am not sure how I feel about getting naked in polythene with an audience watching ........

Daffy
Title: Re: hi all
Post by: Jennifer52 on February 22, 2016, 02:52:59 pm
I don't know them personally but already contacted them with a view to booking a cabin the next time they have their next kink week. I'm pretty sure they're not dodgy! They're well known in the sub / dom scene with the Mrs being a domme and the Mr being her sub.
And I'm sure we could avert our eyes when you climb into your bin Daffy ;)
I've attached a link

https://fetlife.com/groups/88416/group_posts/4727643
Title: Re: hi all
Post by: shokolada on February 22, 2016, 03:03:32 pm
There's a campsite in Maryland that frequently holds kink events, with hundreds of happy pervs there. I bought my trashcan one year, and a Domme had arranged for several gallons of methylcellulose slime in many colors!

Even though slime is not my favorite, I will always have fond memories of several happy campers laughing and joking as I got extremely trashed in my can. I only wish the scene could have gone longer; I had to clean up to get messy again in an erotic pie fight demo I was conducting that afternoon.

So yes, I can highly recommend arrange trashing scenes at reputable kink events... as long as the showers aren't too far away!

Shok
Title: Re: hi all
Post by: Daffy Duck on February 22, 2016, 05:02:58 pm
Hi Jennifer52,

I shall leave it open for others to contact you as they see fit.

Thanks for the link.

As a person who writes under a fictitious name, I fear I would blush too much !  But thanks anyway.

Daffy
Title: Re: hi all
Post by: Daffy Duck on February 22, 2016, 05:07:03 pm
Hi Shok,

Thanks for your vote of support. One site in Maryland USA is not necessarily the same as the one in northeast England. 

I like polythene, as opposed to messyplay. But, again, each to their own.

Daffy
Title: Re: hi all
Post by: desolate mistral on February 22, 2016, 10:40:54 pm
This would be a good idea for one of these fetish get aways.

If there are a large number attending, see if you could rent a garbage truck to "clean up the trash," if you know what I mean.

A group could stuff trash bags, set everything to AS SAFE AS IS POSSIBLE IN A GARBAGE TRUCK, and spend the weekend trashing each other.

it would be a semi controlled environment where some trash play people could get together and play!

Whadda yall think
 
Title: Re: hi all
Post by: desolate mistral on February 22, 2016, 10:53:16 pm
Just a little food for thought:

http://www.bigtruckrental.com/our-trucks/
Title: Re: hi all
Post by: Daffy Duck on February 23, 2016, 12:07:12 pm
I can see this topic becoming a story for the Plaza, whether real life or imagined !
Title: Re: hi all
Post by: desolate mistral on February 23, 2016, 12:59:26 pm
I feel you are going to like the next story of mine that gets published. I sent it into Gromet on Saturday. I'm just waiting now!

Title: Re: hi all
Post by: desolate mistral on February 23, 2016, 01:00:18 pm
Although knowing how many stories you clog his in box with Daffy, it may take a little bit of time for him to find my story! :P
Title: Re: hi all
Post by: Daffy Duck on February 23, 2016, 05:25:40 pm
Hi Desolate Mistral,

I welcome the good news that someone else is writing trashcan stories. I am fed up reading my own, I know the endings !

A lesser man might take exception to being accused of 'clogging his inbox'. If you don't want me to write any more, just say so !!

If you posted your story using second class mail, it might get to Brisbane by Christmas, although they don't guarantee which year.

Daffy
Title: Re: hi all
Post by: Trash girl on February 23, 2016, 06:57:14 pm
no one want you to stop writing storys daffy you are so good at it on here
Title: Re: hi all
Post by: Daffy Duck on February 23, 2016, 07:08:19 pm
Thanks for that, Trash Girl.

I do get hate mail as well as fan mail. I think all authors do.

Proving: You can please some of the people some of the time; but not all of the people all of the time.

Title: Re: hi all
Post by: desolate mistral on February 23, 2016, 11:00:02 pm
Fuck the haters. If they don't like it, don't read it.

Everyone has things they like, things they don't. Keep on writing to your little hearts content. You have stories that I truly enjoy, and others that don't appeal to me. That's the joy of writing. It allows you to live in a little part of your mind that people may not know you live in. It allows you to be other people, experience things you may never.

Haters gonna hate. Don't listen to the noise, Cause that's all it is!
Title: Re: hi all
Post by: Trash girl on February 24, 2016, 08:51:39 am
Well said desolate haters are nothing but hot air to us that are interested in the storyes about indulgeing or shelf in the world of trash we have or fantasy and thay have thir that we may not like
Title: Re: hi all
Post by: Daffy Duck on February 24, 2016, 11:35:48 am
Thanks Desolate Mistral and Trash Girl.

I welcome constructive feedback, as I want to improve. But, I have learned not to take the haters to heart. It is hard because it feels personal.

Daffy
Title: Re: hi all
Post by: desolate mistral on February 24, 2016, 07:58:08 pm
Just remember one thing,

It's only personal if you let it be personal, otherwise it's just an opinion. Everyone is unfortunately entitled to an opinion, even if it's wrong. Hahaha

And like I tell the people who I manage, if someone says something or does something to get a negative response out of you, and they do. They win. Dismiss them without as much as a thought. They will be mad that you didn't feed into their rhetoric, and by doing that you win.

Thats a good life lesson I think also!
Title: Re: hi all
Post by: Daffy Duck on February 24, 2016, 10:10:41 pm
Helpful life tips for everyone. Cheers Desolate Mistral.