Hi everyone,
I'm evolova (https://evolova.com/)
I've been experimenting with solo bondage sessions using a... let's just say, a non-verbal partner. She's passive, soft, and never talks back—but always ready. 😅
Lately I've been incorporating rope, blindfolds, cuffs, and even a posture collar into the scene. Sometimes I set a timer or remote to simulate loss of control. It's been surprisingly intimate.
I'm curious:
Has anyone else here tried self-bondage with a lifelike partner (not just a pillow or dummy)?
How do you enhance the feeling of dominance/control without a second person?
Any safety tips or ideas to make it feel more immersive?
Would love to hear about others' creative setups or rituals.
Thanks for reading ❤️
Yes, but the setting is slightly different. It offers security and the option (optional) to add games.
At our bed and breakfast for fetishists, we offer to secure our guests' self-bondage free of charge. (They send us a text message to let us know they are going to play and indicate a safety time limit).
If everything goes well, we don't see anything.
If the person gets stuck, when we go to free them, we see their body and what they have done. We free them and that's it.
OPTIONS (free)
If the person is stuck AND has allowed us to play with them a little (without sex), they are exposed to:
- Receiving a light spanking
- Us extending the bondage for an hour or two
- A forfeit to be carried out the next day.
- If they have put on a chastity cage, we confiscate the keys for 48 hours.
Everything I mention is real. At our bed and breakfast for fetishists, we are there to support people without ever judging them.
There is a free video here that shows us how to secure a girl who has become stuck.
https://fessestivites.com/media/213133