Hello everyone!
Let's start with the basics. I'll do it as a list, just for convenience.
Name: I'd like to call myself Katten (The Cat).
Gender: Female
Sexual oriantation: Switch, but mostly living out my dominant side these days. Sex is all about connection, communicating, power exchange and the mental fullfillment to me. It's about the feelings, both mental and physical. All about arousal, about controlling my own bodily reactions aswell as someone else's. Bondage, gaging, punishments, mind controll, whips, machines or any other possible thing one could imagine are tools to get there in my way of seeing things. Tools I couldn't live without! I got no fetishes of my own, but my partner has a really strong one in silk scarves. I also got a touch of sadism in me, even though I rarely live out that side.
From: Sweden. I know my english grammar and spelling is a bit off at times, feel free to correct any mistakes.
Okay then, why am I here? First of all, I've been reading stories by many talented authors on here for a while. I love a good story! It also helps me understand other aspects and parts of sexuality than my own preferences. I love to explore, to understand, to experience. I use some of the things in my sexual life, some in my fantasies, some helps me understand my partners wantings and needs and some makes me discover something new about myself.
Secondly, I love to write myself. I'm a bit (no, hugely) self conscious about my writing and I have never published anything I've written online. Not in english at least. I've tried writing this kind of stories in my own language, but it's just not the same feel. I only read written porn in english as well.
As a writer I'd love to capture the mind of the characters. What are they feeling? What are they thinking? Every person is different, and what interests me mostly is what's going on in their heads. Touching a breast, stroking a dick or getting your wrists tied to a bed frame is all nice and good, but what does it feel like? I don't even know if this makes any sense at all to anyone, or if I'm just being weird. I would also like to write from different perspecives than only my own. I would love to write from a male point of view, from a sub point of view, from a dominant point of view. I would love to write stories from the views of tops as well as bottoms...
The most important reason for me joining the forum is the inspiration and the knowledge collected here. Knowledge both in technical issues like point of view, story lenght, level of details or specific topics, but also knowledge in feelings, sensations, experiences and such.
This became a small wall of text. If anyone made it this far, thank you for reading
Love
Katten